tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3901462817085747958.post7147173200006320615..comments2009-05-17T07:18:19.537-07:00Sylviehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15066057222847136675noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3901462817085747958.post-57188682484369737582009-05-17T07:18:00.000-07:002009-05-17T07:18:00.000-07:00I have a sil that is like this. Her entire life is based on what others think of her.<br /><br />I think it's really sad.<br /><br />I started noticing this "policeman" several years ago and it takes time and conditioning to break out of this mold. <br /><br />It's kind of like trying to unlearn your native language and then exclusively learn and speak another. It's possible, but you will find yourself slipping back to the old language periodically.<br /><br />I have a great opportunity here to teach my 3 year old daughter about this from the beginning.David Mathishttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06493782229118938889noreply@blogger.com